danielle colby went from jehovah's witnesses to burlesque dancer to vintage decor goddess.
dallas news | by joy tipping.
january 30, 2014. .
Well in my Watford K.H, congregations were divided between north and south. Geri Halliway of the spice girls mum was a witness,on the other side to me. Let's quote Geri from her Autobiography " I sat through endless sermons at the Kings Hall ......I stood on doorsteps clutching my mothers hand. Nobody ever wanted to invite us in and some were quite rude"
Fortunatly Geris mum left the " truth" quote " They were a bunch of hypocrites who were just as materalistic and greedy as the rest of us"
at the moment i dont beleive in anything.
im pretty much an open book, but my critical mind is very alert to bullshit.
but anyway i decided to re-read the bible with a non jw filter.. i researched online first which is supposed to be the best translation out there.
I am back again, when you read the bible as a Jehovers Witness do you remember these passages?
" And it came to pass on the morrow that THE EVIL SPIRIT, from God came upon Saul" 1 Samuel 18:10
" And the EVIL spirit from the LORD was upon Saul" 1 Samuel 19:9
" Then GOD sent an EVIL SPIRIT between Abimelech and the men of Shechem, and the men of Shechem dealt treacherously with Abimelech" judges 9:23
The truth is a careful examination of the bible shows Jehover commands the murder of children, and the rape of women. Isaiah 13:15.
I could quote a hundred more examples that show the Jehover I worshipped from the bible is insane and has a lower moral standard than I. How as a Jehovers Witness did I/ we miss those passages?
at the moment i dont beleive in anything.
im pretty much an open book, but my critical mind is very alert to bullshit.
but anyway i decided to re-read the bible with a non jw filter.. i researched online first which is supposed to be the best translation out there.
I have not read the bible in over a year, and what I have learnt in that year, is that I have the power to live a really great life. And that power comes from within. However I respectfully appreciate some of the wisdom I learnt from the bible, such as " Do not worry about tomorrow, for tomorrow will worry about itself. Each day has enough trouble of its own" Matthew 6:34. Of course unlike a witness I take the above advice whilst now planning for the future.
Another great piece of advice I value from the bible is " Watch for false prophets, they come to you in sheeps clothing" Matthew 7:-15 and it perfectly sums up the witnesses. So to conclude, now an athiest i still feel some bible passages have contributed to improving my thinking and attitude on life.
when i first met my wife and on that so important first date i was 21 years old and sadly broke, she was an 18 year old au pair.
any way i treated her to mcdonald's but she had to pay for the meal.
now over 20 years later and still together, i realize how lucky i was she didn't say on that first date " if you can't afford to pay "our" mcdonald's meal f...off" .
However thinking about it maybe the whole concept of a meal on a first date is a bad idea. I mean it can be very awkward with out chemistry, and you could end up sharing a plate of snails in a white wine sauce with someone who revolts you as much as you revolt them.
Anyway how many men when they have a free evening would prefer to take out:-
A) The wife
B)The secretary.
C) A girl friend
in my case and at my age I am just happy to take along my teeth :-)
Has anybody here had the misfortune of going on a first date with a right creep, who mistakenly thinks themselfs the worlds greatest lover?
when i first met my wife and on that so important first date i was 21 years old and sadly broke, she was an 18 year old au pair.
any way i treated her to mcdonald's but she had to pay for the meal.
now over 20 years later and still together, i realize how lucky i was she didn't say on that first date " if you can't afford to pay "our" mcdonald's meal f...off" .
On a first date " split equally" or " each person pays what what they personally ate or drunk" still means it's going to take at least another meal before you get too see her in Sanitex Rubber Body-Stockings.
Sorry for my silly humor, I am not a shallow person the first girl I fell in love with had a wart on her knee, and was in class 2b, I remember that although I was only five.
when i first met my wife and on that so important first date i was 21 years old and sadly broke, she was an 18 year old au pair.
any way i treated her to mcdonald's but she had to pay for the meal.
now over 20 years later and still together, i realize how lucky i was she didn't say on that first date " if you can't afford to pay "our" mcdonald's meal f...off" .
Listerner, I honestly believe at 21 most young men consider themselfs " potentially" one of the worlds greatest lovers. The problem is at that age in 1996 how many positions did we men of 21 really know?
a) 1
b) 69
answer) I and 69
Seriously as a child of 16 I remember the effort I spent writting my first Valentines Card. ( yes forbidden by the W.T but I was a naughty boy) anyway I won't say my poem was not appreciated, but sadly I will say I had no need to purchase a deodorant having sent that Valentine card.
p.s I still remember that girls name.
when i first met my wife and on that so important first date i was 21 years old and sadly broke, she was an 18 year old au pair.
any way i treated her to mcdonald's but she had to pay for the meal.
now over 20 years later and still together, i realize how lucky i was she didn't say on that first date " if you can't afford to pay "our" mcdonald's meal f...off" .
Stan livedeath, your picture of a " Bigmac" I imagine is the perfect example of meeting a person on a dating site. They look nothing like the picture.
when i first met my wife and on that so important first date i was 21 years old and sadly broke, she was an 18 year old au pair.
any way i treated her to mcdonald's but she had to pay for the meal.
now over 20 years later and still together, i realize how lucky i was she didn't say on that first date " if you can't afford to pay "our" mcdonald's meal f...off" .
Giles (Q) " How about option D) each person pays their own bill?
The Rebel: That was option B) equally split.
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Anyway i may be behind the times,so in the year 2016 when on that "Oh" so-important first date, do we men give our partner:-
a) flowers
b) chocolates
c) one.
And in the year 2016 do married men when they have a free evening prefer to take out:
a) The wife
b) the secretary
c) a girl friend.
Well unless you answered A/B to question 1, and A to question 2, then you are nothing more than a disgusting evil minded little creep.
when i first met my wife and on that so important first date i was 21 years old and sadly broke, she was an 18 year old au pair.
any way i treated her to mcdonald's but she had to pay for the meal.
now over 20 years later and still together, i realize how lucky i was she didn't say on that first date " if you can't afford to pay "our" mcdonald's meal f...off" .
When I first met my wife and on that so important first date I was 21 years old and sadly broke, she was an 18 year old Au pair. Any way I treated her to McDonald's but she had to pay for the meal. Now over 20 years later and still together, I realize how lucky I was she didn't say on that first date " if you can't afford to pay "our" McDonald's meal f...off"
So " Now" the important question of the O.P. In your opinion on a first date should the meal be:-
A) paid by the man.
B) equally spilt.
C) paid by woman.
If you choose A) B) or C your reason why would be appreciated.
looking at the board, i see so many long threads on " evoultion vs creation " ect, ect.. therefore if " your" qualifications are only those of " an" uneducated j.w, may i ask one question?.
q) what makes you feel you are now qualified to comment with absolute ,authority on any discussion?.
i ask the above question because for most of us " ex-witnesses " logic is still words written in the pages of an awake" magazine.
Well when I was a witness my opinion was held by 9 million other people, however it was nice to come out in the minority. So now on this board I am pleased to have my " independent" views and my opinions. However further education and discretion is advised to all those that want to remain healthy and balanced in their thinking when reading my views.
